Failing To Succeed
How Wayne Root failed his way to the top . . . and how you can, too.
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Straight out of college, Wayne Root launched several
businesses-and watched each one fold. Not yet out of his 20s,
Root's life looked to be a shambles. Except for one thing. With
each failure, he learned a little bit more and finally realized
there is joy in failure: "Fail enough, and you will eventually
fail your way to the top," says Root today.
His life is proof. With no background in sports broadcasting and
with that string of business failures on his resume, Root set his
sights on being a national sports broadcaster-and got rejected by
hundreds of TV stations. But he persevered until Financial News
Network (FNN), a cable network, offered him a job as its weekend
sports anchor. From there, he leapfrogged to USA Networks, where
he's a regular on "Proline," a weekly sports
prognostication show. Just 35 years old, he lives a dream life in a
Malibu, California, mansion.
Now he's decided to spread his message of the joy of
failure, and companies are eagerly paying him between $5,000 and
$15,000 per day to hear his pep talks. He's signed to host a
weekly inspirational radio show, and, what's more, he's the
author of a new book titled (what else?) The Joy of Failure!
(Summit Publishing Group).
"Every time I fail, I know I'm that much closer to the
success I want. Don't kid yourself-if you want to win big, you
will lose big along the way. That's why my program for turning
failure into success is so important for entrepreneurs," says
Root. Read on to learn more about his program for success.
Entrepreneur:How can you say there's joy in
failure?
Wayne Root: When I tell people I've had businesses
that failed and have gone through bankruptcy, they think these are
negatives, terrible things. Certainly, nobody wants this to
happen-but there is also no question that all those things brought
me to the point I am at today. The problems, pain, adversity I
experienced have allowed me to live the life of my dreams-and
that's why I talk about "The Joy of Failure" and how
I've failed my way to the top.
Talking about it lets the millions of people out there who are
mired in pain know that 1) you can live through it, and 2) failure
can lead to something great. My personal example proves that. So do
Steven Jobs, Sly Stallone and Bill Clinton-all have suffered
failures, but look where they are today. There are so many great
successes who, along the way, had to overcome terrible failure-and
that means there's hope for all of us. The root of success is
failure.
Entrepreneur:When did this idea click for
you?
Root: When I saw my father die. Growing up, what I saw in
my father was a man who had no passions. He worked long hours at a
job he hated.
Later, when I'd gotten my big break and was a national TV
anchorman, I got a call from my father. He had been diagnosed with
cancer. As he lay dying, we talked a lot, and I learned how sad he
was. His big dream in life was to go around the world, but he
actually never went anywhere.
My sadness turned to shock when he told me he was scared for me
because I'd had so many failures, so many disappointments.
"What is he talking about?" I thought. "I'm on
TV, I have a home in Malibu and a wonderful wife." Then,
suddenly, it all made sense to me, and I figured out the theme that
I wanted to share with the world. It's the reason my father
never accomplished his dreams-he'd been afraid of failure his
entire life, so he'd never taken risks.
There are millions of people just like my father. They don't
see that by spending their lives afraid of failure, their lives
become failures. But when you go out there and risk as I have,
you'll have failures along the way, but eventually the result
is great success if you are willing to keep risking.
If you want to win big, you have to be prepared to lose big. For
every big "yes" in life, there will be 199
"nos." That's how success works, and that's why
failure is good.
Entrepreneur:Is attitude the key?
Root: You do need the right attitude-but you need more
than that to succeed. This is where so many motivational speakers
sell their audiences short. They offer inspiration but not
[concrete lessons for] becoming great. So much motivational
material is reminiscent of the Nike commercial-"Just Do
It!" But if people knew how to do it, they wouldn't need
the motivator in the first place! Inspiration may make you feel
good, but you've got to be shown how to do it.
Entrepreneur:So where's the beef? How do we turn
failure around?
Root: Here's the first step: Develop positive
addictions. I say that, and most people say, "Aren't
addictions bad?" Well, I want you to know, I'm an addict.
I'm a visualization addict-I "see" in my mind
positive things occurring in my life, and that's one way I
program myself for success. I'm also a goal-planning addict and
a healthy diet addict.
Look around America, and you'll discover 90 percent of us
need reprogramming. Faced with failure, most people choose
addictions to drugs, alcohol, food. They do not turn to the
positive addictions that will get them through the bad moments in
life.
Success in business has to do with what you put in your body and
mind-the thoughts and the food-and you have it in your power to put
in only the positive ingredients that will help you face and
overcome the inevitable failures on the path to big successes.
Entrepreneur:Back when TV executives were essentially
laughing at you, why didn't you quit your dream?
Root: They were literally laughing at me. I know because
I couldn't get an agent, and I was playing my own agent.
Several called up and told my agent-me-that Wayne Allyn Root was
"a joke," "an embarrassment."
Why did I keep going in the face of terrible failure? Whenever I
was rejected, I used my positive addictions to put me in a positive
frame of mind, something that would help me keep going. Plus, I had
a great faith in and commitment to what I wanted to do. That's
essential, and it comes above all else.
Goals are crucial-no one should underestimate their importance.
But there's something much more important than goals, and
that's having the commitment and the passion to stick with your
goals. That's the first of the Power Principles I teach in
workshops.
Entrepreneur:Power Principles?
Root: These are the meat and potatoes of attaining
success. My Power Principles are fundamental doctrines people all
over the world use to be successful. Study their lives, and
it's incredible-so many successful people in business, sports,
entertainment take the same steps.
Entrepreneur:Exactly what are the "Power
Principles"?
Root: First, passion. Look at the people who make it to
the top. One feature they have in common is a passion for what they
do. This is true in business, politics, sports and entertainment.
Even liberals have to admit Newt Gingrich has passion. Even
conservatives have to admit Jesse Jackson has passion. These are
men who have such strong convictions that even people who hate them
have to agree they are successful at what they do. And it's
their passion that has let them get to that place.
You cannot win without that passion. It's crucial in facing
down failure. When you have passion, you persist despite the
temporary setback posed by a failure. No matter your field, have
that passion-or find another field where you can be passionate.
Without passion, you won't get to the top.
The second Power Principle is energy. People don't make it
to the top with low energy. You need stamina to overcome the
failures you'll encounter on the road to success. How do you
maintain high energy? You eat the right foods, exercise, live a
healthy lifestyle. Do that, and you'll have the energy to
compete, day in and day out, for the long haul.
Third is discipline. Discipline is essential for getting beyond
failure. Every night before I go to bed, I organize the next day,
down to the minute. If there's a task I can't get to during
the day, it goes on tomorrow's list. You need that attitude to
succeed. You can have all the energy in the world, but if
that's all you have, you are a wild stallion who tries to do a
million things but accomplishes few of them. So get very focused on
what you need to be doing to succeed.
The fourth Power Principle is action. In the end, if you
haven't taken action, nothing will happen. You have to hit the
pavement in pursuit of your goals. You have to take the risks.
John Travolta's career was going nowhere [several years ago]
when he was offered a part in a movie by a young director; the pay
was $150,000. That's small change to Travolta. But he took the
chance, made "Pulp Fiction," and for his next film, he
was paid $7 million. When I got my start in radio in New York, I
was paid nothing-and I was on every week. But the money didn't
matter and neither did the many other sacrifices I had to make in
those days because I knew I was on my way to the top. And you will
get to the top when you take action and take risks.
Entrepreneur:Let's get specific about your
success. How did you get your break on television?
Root: I'd been doing radio-in New York and Chicago
and, later, nationally on the NBC network-so I made a TV demo tape,
sent it out, and started getting massive rejections. This is when
TV executives were telling "my agent"-me-that Wayne Root
was a joke. Hundreds of stations turned me down. But I kept sending
out tapes and calling TV executives. In fact, I wound up calling
FNN 15 times.
The sixteenth time I called, the general manager accepted the
call-this was the first time he spoke to me. He invited me in for
an interview because his sports announcer had just quit. I went in
and was offered the job within the week. That's vivid proof the
program works.
Entrepreneur:Couldn't we say you were just very
lucky?
Root: You create your "luck" by hard work.
"Luck is the residue of design," as [Hall of Fame
baseball manager] Branch Rickey said. Getting the FNN job
wasn't luck-it was the culmination of a lot of effort, pain and
rejection.
Life is not a roll of the dice. Getting to where I am has
involved an incredible amount of pain, but if you follow the Power
Principles, practice the positive addictions and hear the
"nos," eventually you hear the one "yes" that
changes your life.
Entrepreneur:What's the bottom line about
failure?
Root: You may hear rejection all day long, but when you
get that one "yes," it makes it all worthwhile. So
understand this-yes, you are getting rejected, but so did I and
look where I am today. Failure is good, and when you've failed
enough, you will begin to succeed. That's what a successful
life is all about.
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