Full Esteem Ahead
Act like an executive--and get the respect you deserve.
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There are those who can make people stand at attention just by
entering a room. When they speak, people listen. That kind of
executive presence may be innate for some, but don't worry if
it's not your forte--it can be learned, too. We asked Dianna
Booher, author of Speak With Confidence (McGraw-Hill), how
new entrepreneurs can learn to have the presence of a seasoned
pro:
- Talk slowly. If you speak
too fast, you are, in effect, telling the audience you're not
worthy of taking up their time. "The person who's nervous
tends to talk faster," says Booher. "By [speaking]
slowly, that shows you're confident-that you have a right to be
there."
- Stand up. Whenever you
speak, whether from a podium or in a conference room, standing up
gives people the impression that you are confident. Even if you
stand up only to introduce yourself, then sit down, it's still
an effective way to take the stage. Says Booher, "Visually,
you have authority."
- Watch your movement. Even
small gestures can convey meaning. "When you gesture from your
shoulder, you take up more space," says Booher. "The
bigger your room, the bigger your gesture needs to be." But
beware of moving around your stage too much-it will make you look
fidgety.
- Rehearse your lines. Go
over what you plan to say--not just mentally, but also physically
and orally. Practice everything, from the inflection of your voice
on certain points to your gestures. Says Booher, "There's
nothing like doing a live walk-through."
- Don't nod. When
you're listening to another person, don't nod your head to
illustrate that you're paying attention. It gives the
impression that you agree with everything that person is saying and
that you don't have any unique opinions on the topic.
"That detracts from [your] authority," says Booher.
"Part of executive presence is remembering not to nod your
head. It's those little gestures that say things."
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