Calling for families to act.
by Enos, Gary A.
If the government's anti-drug efforts have constituted a
"War on Drugs," then the authors of a compelling new book
would contend that authorities have conducted bombing raids when they
should have been engaged in hand-to-hand combat on the ground.
Andrew T. Wainwright, executive director of the national
intervention network Addiction Intervention Resources, Inc., says the
government's bureaucratic and distant approach to eliminating drug
problems from communities has ignored the area where genuine
accomplishments can take place--in each household affected by addiction.
He and AIR president and CEO Robert Poznanovich argue in It's Not
Okay to Be a Cannibal (Hazelden Publishing) that families hold the true
power to effect change and win back their addicted loved ones.
Wainwright, who was raised amid the power culture of Washington,
D.C., knows a little about how families can assert their leverage at the
most opportune time. When his life began to come apart because of a
heroin addiction, his mother stepped in and refused to give any ground
in helping her son.
"She would go to any length she had to in order to get me the
help I needed, and damn the consequences," Wainwright recalls. And
Wainwright's opportunity to travel halfway across the country to
enter treatment wasn't presented as an option in some hazy
"either/or" proposition. "If I had had an open door to
walk through and $5 in my pocket, I may have made a different
choice," he says.
Wainwright describes the new book as a frank and direct call to
action for families, and he credits Hazelden for its willingness to
publish a book that uses what he calls the "urban vernacular"
to empower families. This is in contrast to books that have urged
families to take a more cautious approach in working with the addicted
loved one.
His first message to family members is not to wait when they detect
a problem. "If you know something's going on, it's your
responsibility to do something about it," he says. The book lists a
Family's Bill of Rights (and Responsibilities), with statements
such as, "You have the right to peace in your own home. If there is
a disrupting force, you have the right to remove it."
Wainwright sees the book as a potentially useful tool for family
programs in that it explains the mechanics of intervention and how
families can overcome hesitancy over using this aggressive approach. It
is refreshing to see family dynamics receiving much attention among
professionals these days; the healthy response we have received to
coverage of family issues spurred us to launch "The Family
Factor" as a regular column feature in the magazine this year. The
new book from Wainwright and Poznanovich offers important guidance for
families, with the added credibility of coming from two authors who have
firsthand knowledge of families' pivotal role in fighting the war
at home.
On another note, look for expanded coverage in upcoming issues that
will help commemorate the 35th anniversary of NAADAC, The Association
for Addiction Professionals. Culminating with dedicated anniversary
coverage in our July/August issue this year, we will use NAADAC's
milestone as the backdrop for an exploration of both the rich history of
this field and a glimpse at the challenges ahead.
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Gary A. Enos, Editor
genosl@cox.net
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