The Secret to Finding a Great Mentor: Don't Ask to Be Mentored Many entrepreneurs think of mentorship all wrong. And that means they're missing the great mentors in front of them.
By Jason Feifer •
This story appears in the July 2018 issue of Entrepreneur. Subscribe »
"Will you be my mentor?" When I became editor in chief, I was unprepared for how often I'd be asked this question. It came from a teenager at a business conference, who waited around to talk with me until everyone else had left. From a first-time entrepreneur through an Instagram DM. From a podcast host, after an interview. From a startup founder, after I put her in the magazine. It happens every few weeks now, and I'm not alone in this. Many successful entrepreneurs tell me it happens to them, too.
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We almost always say no, for reasons I'll explain below. But it doesn't have to be this way. The question these people are asking is, I think, a symptom of a larger problem: Many entrepreneurs misunderstand what it means to have a mentor.