Acing the Art of Network with BNI Founder Ivan Misner

How do you become the ultimate networker? Let's get on with it.....

learn more about Priyadarshini Patwa

By Priyadarshini Patwa

Entrepreneur India/ Pexel

You're reading Entrepreneur India, an international franchise of Entrepreneur Media.

It doesn't matter who you are and what industry you belong to. One can't thrive unless you have cracked the art of networking. While you might be self-sufficient but to get the 101 mantra of building a relationship is an art in itself. Entrepreneur India spoke to Business Network International (BNI), the world's largest business networking and business referral organization, founder Ivan Miser who tells us the mantras to ace the art of networking.

Imagine you just walked into a huge room filled with strangers. Your ultimate goal is to meet these people, strike a conversation, make acquaintance and friend – which will lead you to build a network. But how do you become the ultimate networker?

Let's get on with it!

Networking is About Farming

What primarily holds people back is that they use networking as a face to face cold calling opportunity. People meet individuals at a networking event, and say, "Hi, let's do business."

They try to go right into selling rather than relationship building. And networking is more about farming than it is about hunting. It's about cultivating relationships.

The VCP Process

There are different kinds of approaches that one would use in different environments. The foundation of what I teach is something called the VCP process - Visibility, Credibility, Profitability. If you don't understand what you're doing, it is just using techniques without a base. This is the base, this is the foundation.

It begins with visibility. People have to know who you are if they don't yet know you. There's no place to start. You start with visibility, then move to credibility, where people know who you are, and they know you're pretty good at what you do.

Finally, you move to profitability where people know who you are. They know what you do. They know you're good at it, and they're willing to refer you. What happens is people try to jump over this game, jump over credibility and get to profitability in two minutes. That doesn't work. Cultivate your relationship, that's the way you get to know, like and trust someone. Remember trust takes time.

Start Years Ago

There's a fantastic Chinese proverb that says When is plant an oak tree? The answer is 25 years ago. And so when the second is the best one? Today! Is it best to have started your network years ago? Yeah. I wouldn't worry about what hasn't been done. I would focus on what you can do now.

Scaling Successfully

Source: Pexel

If you want to be successful in business, you have to do six things 1,000 times, not 1,000 things six times. Business people get this wrong, especially start-ups. They do a 1,000 things six times, they're a lot of things and they don't do them enough to make them work well.

And so they don't achieve the success they want. If you want to be successful, it doesn't have to be six, it can be five or seven, but you do a handful of things. You do them over and over and over again.

Power Team

Power teams or force multiplier and referrals are all related. If you know, a florist, a caterer, a photographer, a travel agent, one referral for those people can be four referrals, because if you know somebody who's getting married, you can give one referral to all four.

So power teams are very important in the networking context. And networking groups that cultivate power teams generate a lot more referrals than those who don't.

(This article was first published in the October issue of Entrepreneur Magazine. To subscribe, click here)

Priyadarshini Patwa

Entrepreneur Staff

Features Editor, Entrepreneur India

Priyadarshini Patwa is the Features Editors of Entrepreneur India and hosts an Instagram show every Friday named ‘Lighten Up’, about people from different walks of life and talk about their work and beyond. She handles the lifestyle, features, technology, entertainment segments and also is responsible for the Digital Covers. Previously she has worked with MensXP, a Times of India entity and Deccan Chronicle. 

She’s @Priyanka_Patwa on Twitter and @priyadarshinipatwa on Instagram.

Related Topics


21 Productive Things to Do During Your Commute

How to use this frustrating "wasted time" to get smarter, more focused and re-energized.


Up, Up And Away: Inside India's First Private Space-Tech Company

In the beginning, investors did not believe that a 24-year-old could form a space company in India.


5 Insider Tips for Improving Your Confidence as a Public Speaker

Presenting publicly can be a nerve-wracking experience. Here are five key tips to help you boost your confidence.


50 Work-From-Home Jobs that Pay As Much or More than Average Salary

If you're tired of driving to an office and would love to work at home, there are plenty of high-quality full-time work-from-home jobs for you.

Health & Wellness

5 Essential Steps to Expand Your Vision and Start Living Your Dream Life

It's time to break free from your comfort zone and expand your vision. When you refuse to settle for a mediocre life, you can start building a life you love.