Millionaire Moms' Secrets to Success

Learn how these women turned great ideas into booming businesses.

By Tamara Monosoff

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This article has been excerpted fromSecrets of Millionaire Moms, published by McGraw-Hill.

Through talking with aspiring entrepreneurs on an almost daily basis, and going through the entrepreneurial process myself, I have discovered something interesting--there is a mystique associated with launching one's own business. Simply said, many people believe that successful entrepreneurs are born with specific personality traits that others don't have. This mystique leads to certain myths that can dampen a prospective entrepreneur's enthusiasm, so I'd like to explain and debunk some of the more common misperceptions.

At the same time, I've also discovered that there are, indeed, certain behaviors and traits that can aid an entrepreneur's success. Many of our Millionaire Moms share common attitudes, work ethics or ways of thinking about things, and credit these factors to helping them find success. I will share these with you, too--to help you tap into your own strengths and beliefs in order to find your way.

First, let's explore some common myths about what breeds success.

Debunking the Myths
Many people believe they don't have the innate qualities necessary to find success as an entrepreneur, and that self-made millionaires are somehow "different" from them. I think that many of the most commonly held beliefs, however, are simply myths, and our Millionaire Moms' experiences support my position. In this section, I discredit five common myths about successful entrepreneurs.

Myth No. 1: You Have to be "Ms. Personality"
Reality: People with many different personality types have become successful. For as many outgoing Martha Stewarts and Richard Bransons, there are countless successful entrepreneurs with very low profiles who wish to stay that way. It's more important to be smart in business and to build a strong team than it is to be charismatic.

It's also helpful to learn from others' examples.

"I study successful people. Because one day it occurred to me, they started out just like me," explains Jeanne Bice, founder of The Quacker Factory, a more than $50 million company that designs and sells clothing exclusively through QVC. "I've heard that Martha Stewart started out selling pies in front of a Ralph Lauren store in a strip mall. From humble beginnings she became a great success. To this day I read about people who have become successful, and I use people as role models. And I look at success, I don't look at failures. Because I'm not headed for a failure."

Myth No. 2: The Idea is the Most Important Thing
Reality: Yes, it's important to have a good idea. But that's not even half the battle. More important is how you position your product or service, and how it meets your target market's needs. You don't need to invent something completely novel, like the iPod or the microwave oven, to be successful - you can also take an idea that already exists and simply make it better.

Case in point: Maxine Clark, founder of Build-A-Bear Workshop, didn't invent teddy bears--and she's the first person who'll tell you that. She did, however, invent something special--an emotional experience and connection between children, their caregivers and the special bears they create together. That was the "secret" to creating her successful product, with a vision that was rooted in present-day factors.

Myth No. 3: Success Means Never Going Backward
Reality: Yes, successful people are committed to making their vision happen. But they are also willing to change direction.

Bice knows this. She realizes that she can't get too attached to any one product, no matter how much she may personally love it.

"A loser is a loser is a loser," says Bice. "I don't care if you color it purple and put a pink bow on it, it's a loser and that's a hard lesson to learn. If something isn't selling, put it on sale and get rid of your losses."

Rachel Ashwell, founder of Shabby Chic, also understands the need to change and evolve. She's just entered another stage of her business, accepting funding from venture capitalists to help take the company to the next level.

"In order to grow the business to the next stage I recognized I needed two things: the need to attain significant capital and to attract an experienced executive team with a proven track record of achieving this kind of growth," says Ashwell.

Myth No. 4: Only Risk Brings Reward
Reality: Any entrepreneurial venture involves some risk, yes. But you don't have to risk everything in order to find success.

Almost every one of the Millionaire Moms took great pains to minimize their risks. Whether it was growing "organically" by using only company revenue to grow, like Teri Gault, founder of the Grocery Game, or maintaining a manageable pace of growth, like Kathy Gendel, founder of Breezies Intimates, none of the women consider themselves extremists when it comes to risk-taking.

"Our philosophy is 'slow and steady wins the race,'" says Gendel. "We've never tried to grow too quickly."

Myth No. 5: Your No. 1 Priority Has to be Money
Reality: For many entrepreneurs, millionaire status is a by-product of their original goals. In my own case, it was never money alone that motivated me to build Mom Inventors, Inc. And a number of the Millionaire Moms are still stunned that they turned their kitchen-table businesses into multi-million dollar ventures.

Victoria Knight-McDowell, who created the phenomenally successful Airborne, was surprised by the rate of her success. "We never expected it to get this big," she says. "It just absolutely took on a life of its own."

Bice also values other aspects of running a business. "Not every business is for a financial reward," she shares. "If you aren't making a wonderful living at it, you're not in the right place."

Terrie Williams, president and founder of the Terrie Williams Agency and founder of the Stay Strong Foundation, puts it this way: "If you don't get up in the morning with butterflies in your stomach it means you're either going through life being pathetic or you're flat-lining. Because the butterflies, as horrible as they feel, mean that you're challenging yourself and taking your game to the next level."

So now that we've explained what it doesn't take to helm a successful business, here's what it does take. From my own experience, and from the many insights shared by our Millionaire Moms, I've found that there are four essential parts to answering the question, "What does it take to be successful?"

  • Clarity regarding your life goals
  • An understanding of what you seek to build
  • Insight about the traits successful business leaders possess
  • Flexibility and the will to do whatever it takes

As mothers, women, companions, professionals, entrepreneurs and more, our lives are complex. This complexity can be difficult to handle, but also can be exhilarating and gratifying. By defining our Living Dream, tackling challenges such as our fears of money, seeking balance, loving our families, learning the fundamentals of building and growing a business, and finally accepting the challenge to do whatever it takes to create the life you want--you too, can find success.

For more success stories and tips from other Millionaire Moms, read Tamara Monosoff's book,Secrets of Millionaire Moms.

Tamara Monosoff

Your Million Dollar Dream: Regain Control & Be Your Own Boss Tamara Monosoff is the author of Your Million Dollar Dream: Regain Control & Be Your Own Boss and The Mom Inventors Handbook, Secrets of Millionaire Moms, and co-author of The One Page Business Plan for Women in Business. She is also the and CEO of Connect on Twitter: @mominventors and on Facebook:

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