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Build a Network That Will Be There When You Need It With These 3 Tips There are few things in the world of business that are more valuable than connections with helpful people.

By Adam Callinan Edited by Jason Fell

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As any entrepreneur will tell you, there are few things in the world of business that are more valuable than a great network. After all, you're only as strong as your weakest link.

When it comes time to start a new enterprise, expand a company, raise funds or even find a co-founder, you'll be relying on the value of your network to help you accomplish these milestones. Let's take a look at three steps to make sure you have the strongest network possible when the time comes to tap into it:

1. Make yourself uncomfortable.

No, I don't mean you should wear a down jacket in Las Vegas in August. I mean you're going to need to put yourself out there. Unless you are one of those rare people who can meet a random stranger on the street, strike up a conversation and get their life story within 30 seconds, approaching someone you have never met before can be nerve-racking.

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But if you want to build a great network, you have to do it -- a lot. The more you do it, the better you will get. Make it your goal to get people talking about themselves, while genuinely listening to what they are saying. If you fake it, they will recognize it and you will have burned a potentially valuable connection.

Dale Carnegie's classic book, How To Win Friends and Influence People, is an incredible resource built largely on this idea. If you haven't read it already, I highly suggest you do. Then read it again at least once per year as a refresher.

Next time you meet someone new, smile, introduce yourself and ask a simple question, such as "Where are you from?" Proceed with some light follow-up questions. You will find them talking at length and naturally warming up to you. It's basic, but it works.

2. Build your network before you need it.

Far too often, aspiring entrepreneurs get to a point in their business when they need advice but have no clue who to go to for direction. I call this the I-wouldn't-even-know-where-to-start dilemma. This is the result of one simple fact: they do not have a network.

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You have to put in the necessary time to build genuine relationships with the right people. Successful people are always connected to other successful people. Join local business networking groups or venture associations and immerse yourself in rooms full of successful and connected people.

The reality is, if you want to be a millionaire you need to surround yourself with millionaires. This might sound ridiculous, but it's absolutely true -- you are who you surround yourself with.

On a related but important note, do not go to someone you have recently met and start asking for favors. It will appear that you're trying to take advantage of them and they will pick up on it. Invest the time to build real relationships, and thus, your network.

3. Follow up, every time.

You know that person who says they are going to do something, then doesn't? You do not want to be that person. In fact, you want to be the opposite of that person.

When you meet someone, even if you do not think they can help you directly, ask if you can keep in touch. Send a simple follow-up email the next day saying that it was nice to meet them and that you look forward to staying in touch. Then stay in touch.

Just because you don't think they might fit your idea of an important connection does not mean they don't know 10 other people who are perfect for what you may try to accomplish in the next month or year.

This last point is what a great network is all about. Networking is not just about the people with whom you are directly connected, it is about getting those people to tap into their networks on your behalf when you need it most.

Related: How to Stay In Touch Without Being Annoying

Adam Callinan

BottleKeeper Founder and Venture Investor

Adam Callinan is a founding partner of Beachwood Ventures, a Los Angeles based early-stage venture capital firm at the intersection of technology and entertainment. As an entrepreneur, Callinan spent nearly a decade building small businesses in and around technology, medical devices and consumer products, which most recently includes an exit in 2013. Callinan lives in Manhattan Beach with his wife Katie and remains active as a founder of BottleKeeper.

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